Avoidant people often walk away from the ones
who truly care about them - not because the love
was wrong, but because it was real.
They're not searching for emotional
connection or true closeness.
They're chasing the idea of 'the one'
someone who feels safe because they
don't trigger their fears. But here's the
truth: that kind of relationship doesn't exist.
They want someone to walk next to them not with them.
It's Always you and them, never us.
When things get intimate, they start to panic.
They mistake the discomfort of closeness for a
sign that something is wrong.
So they pull back, convince themselves 'it's not right'
and go looking for someone who feels easier, simpler, safer.
They want love to feel effortless. Uncomplicated. Calm.
But not because that's healthy, because it keeps them
from feeling vulnerable. And in doing that, they leave
behind people who truly saw them. People who stayed.
People who wanted more than just a presence, they
wanted a partnership. The truth? They didn't leave
because it wasn't right. They left because it was too real.
And real love, the kind that asks for honesty, effort and
emotion, is what terrifies them most.
They said it 'didn't feel right,' like something was of.
But that feeling wasn't about you. It was about proximity.
Because to someone who's used to distance, closeness feels wrong.
And love that asks them to show up feels like pressure.
So they ran - not from you, but from themselves. From the kind
of love that would've required them to finally feel.
sincere.emotion
Art:Philip Huckin- Spring Light
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