Avoidants
This is what you need to hear

If you're not ready for a relationship
then stop creating emotional bonds you
never plan to keep.

Don't call it chemistry if what you really
mean is temporary comfort.

Don't flirt with someone's feelings if you're
terrified of being truly chosen.

You say you want connection,
but what you actually crave is attention.
You want the warmth of closeness,
until it gets real, and then you run.

So you leave people confused,
wondering what they did wrong,
blaming themselves for your fear of intimacy.

That's not self-protection.
That's emotional carelessness.

You're not 'bad at relationships.'
You're avoiding accountability while still
taking the benefits of love.

Being scared isn't a excuse to hurt people
who show up with open hearts.
If you're not ready to love, that's okay,
but stop pretenting you are.

Because connection without commitment
isn't healing, it's harm disguised as honesty.

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