It’s that simple. Not the person you have to convince. Not the person you have to chase. Not the person who keeps you guessing about where you stand. The one who actually wants to be there.
Who shows up. Who tries. Most relationships can be worked out. Distance, timing, differences all of it can be figured out if two people are willing. The problems aren’t usually what end things. It’s the unwillingness to solve them.
If someone wants to be with you, they’ll find a way. If they don’t, they’ll find an excuse. Stop holding onto people who aren’t holding onto you. Stop fighting for relationships where you’re the only one trying.
That’s not love. That’s desperation. If they’re not willing, they’re not your person. And no amount of effort on your end will change that. Let them go. Your person will try.
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