A lot of woman say they want a good man
until they acutally meet one and realize
he's not easy to deal with. A good man
isn't convenient, he doesn't bend to chaos
he doesn't abandon his values just because
emotions run high.

And this is where confusion starts if
you've never experienced emotional maturiy,
you'll misread it every time you call him cold
because he won't tolerate drama.
You'll call him distant because he protects
his peace. You'll call him detached because he
refuses to beg for approval but that isn't coldness
that's self respect. A man who knows his worth
doens't move from insecurity, he moves from conviciton
he doens't chase chaos, he doesn't chase emotional
volatility, he builds, he leads, he creates order
and for people raised in dysfunction peace can
feel boring until it's gone.

Stability doesn't trigger adrenaline but it does
build a life. A good man requires partnership,
respect and emotional regulation.
Good men don't bend they build and the right woman
doesn't fight that she rises to meet it.

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