Don’t date an emotionally intelligent person
if you’re not ready to hear the truth.
Because they won’t call you out to hurt you—
they’ll do it to wake you up.

They’ll see through the excuses.
The patterns.
The walls you built to protect yourself.

They’ll notice avoidance.
They’ll notice projection.
And yes—they’ll hold you accountable.

Not because they’re harsh,
but because to them, love isn’t pretending everything is okay.
Love is growth.

Emotionally intelligent people don’t play games.
No silent treatments.
No manipulation.
They communicate—even when it’s uncomfortable.

And if you’re not ready for that level of honesty,
it will feel like confrontation
when it’s actually connection.
So don’t date someone emotionally aware
if you’re still in love with your comfort zone.

Because they will push you to see yourself.
And once you do—you can’t unsee it.

They’ll love you deeply.
But they’ll also challenge the version of you hiding behind ego.
And that’s where healing begins.
That’s where real growth starts.