This is how emotionally mature and available people
practice love in daily, ordinary moments.
They pause before reacting.
They notice when their body tightens and
they slow down instead of speeding up.
They take responsibility for their emotions,
they do not expect their partner to fix,
their fear, frustration or insecurity.
They speak honestly without blaming,
they say what is true for them,
without attacking or collapsing.
They listen to understand,
not to defend, not to be right,
nor to prepare a counterargument.
They repair quickly,
they acknowledge when they misspoke
or hurt the other. They care more
about connection than being right.
They regulate themselves first,
they breathe, they ground, they do
what they need to in order to
reconnect again.
They set boundaries early and kindly
they do not wait until resentment builds.
They stay present in discomfort,
they do not disappear when things fell hard,
they do not use silence as punishment.
They show consistency, their words
and actions match over time.
This is how conscious love is practiced
daily. Through responsibility, through
presence, through choice.
@atmavoyage
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