The reason why someone avoids you is that
they are embarrassed to be with you in that
moment because they know, they know because
they see that they don't deserve you like zero,
like the reason why they are there with you
in the same room at that moment is that they
have faked an identity to have access to you.

So the more you get real with them, the more
they will be like oh f*ck, oh f*ck and they
will be like oh oh I have to leave, I have
to leave because I don't deserve to be here.
I don't deserve to be in this room having
this exchange with this person because this
person is real, is true, is pure.

Purity is the rarest and most valuable thing
in the world. Pure water, pure earth, pure soil,
pure heart, pure soul, real.
And when do you avoid something? When you know
you cannot match it. And so you're like ooh
bye.

Because there's so many things also playing
you know there's inadequacy so the feeling
of inadequacy makes you not feel ever enough.
So there's an unworthiness wound to be resolved
there.

And the reason why we are in the same rooms of
these avoidants is that we also don't see ourselves
clearly and we have a wound of unworthiness that
makes us blind to our value. So we just accept
bread crumbs because we have never felt someone
appreciating us for who we really are because we
are not valuing ourselves in the first place.

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