Maturity is accepting that sometimes
your love might not be what they need
right now and that's ok.
Sometimes when someone pulls away,
we think it's because we're not good
enough, but it's rarely about us.
It's about timing, readiness or even
their own insecurities. A lot of people
aren't ready, they're still caught up
in their own pain, confusion and walls.
And sometimes, as hard as it is to face,
the healthiest thing you can do is let go.
The hardest lesson here is that letting go
doesn't mean walking away from the person.
It means letting go of the attachment, the
expectations and the fear that their absence
means your worth is somehow lesser.
They haven't yet done the work they need
to do on themselves to meet you in the
fullness of what you can offer. Their absence
doesn't take away from you though.
You can love and still let them go, because
love doesn't always have to be tied to possession.
don't wait for them to be ready either just be
ready for you. Learning this is the game
changer because you've let go of the need
for them to validate you.

Afsa Rosette